Lately, I’ve been trying to learn the culture of Facebook. I took it up a while back and, to be honest, I wondered if it would ever hit critical mass. Guess what — it did. Some say there are over 100 million subscribers now. Yikes. If those all lived in the USA (and they don’t), that would be 1/3 of the nation! I can tell you, anecdotally, not *everyone* is on Facebook (yet). For example, my mother is 81. I don’t *think* she has an account.(Come to think of it, she doesn’t even have a computer.) Let’s see… uhmmm … I can’t think of anyone else. (OK… I’m kidding. It’s not quite that bad — yet!) But the truth is, it does seem that practically everyone (from every country) is logging on these days. Those little one-line status messages (“Doug is happy today — because his dog is now potty-trained” … or similar one-liners) are now a way of life for an entire community of communities. The earth has shifted — people are knitted together in a way they never were before. Old friends united, current friends closer.

But I’m also noticing — Facebookers don’t seem to appreciate being spammed. Frankly, they just won’t tolerate it. There’s a special menu item, “Show me fewer messages from this friend.” It’s quite powerful. And what I’m noticing is — people flock to Facebook to be *personal*, not to be spammed. In fact, some users say blatantly, “Email is broken. For Pete’s sake, you can’t even be sure who sent it. Facebook is cool. And it works.”

So my question is — what do we *do* with Facebook? About the only thing I can think of, so far, is be just what it was designed for you to be – a friend! Listen to people, their sicknesses, their problems, pray for them … and don’t feel bad if you create a subset of friends that come primarily from your group or agency. “Filter” your “live feed” and pay attention to the personal needs of your flock. I wonder if churches are noticing this tool. I’m certain other mission agencies must be noticing it too. How do *you* use it? Please clue us in. We don’t want to be a nameless face in Facebook any longer.