Missio Nexus’ leadership recently reviewed, Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and the Art of Receiving Feedback Well by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen.  This book is about the profound challenge of being on the receiving end of feedback—good or bad, right or wrong, flippant, caring, or callous.  https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/313485/thanks-for-the-feedback-by-douglas-stone-and-sheila-heen/.  Have you read it?